... my research is complete. I have no further use of online dating sites as a resource. I am much more charming in person, in ways that a profile or email couldn't fully convey. That and ... oh my.
Without going too much into depth, I'll just say that I have a very CLEAR definition of the word "divorced" and what it does NOT mean ... it does not mean "separated with the proceedings still in progrss", "not happily married", "haven't gotten around to moving out, but I plan to." ... you get the idea.
I am going to retreat back into entertaining nun fantasies until I fully recover from the trauma.